In the face of the various attacks on life, nowadays the duty of promoting an education more sensitive to the value
of life, to respect for it, and in its defence is of decisive importance; an education capable of offering an overall
view of life and of health and of giving people an ethical sense. The new generations need parents and teachers
who really are ?teachers of life.? They need someone to teach them to be grateful to be alive, to live with a healthy
and moderate life style and to accept responsibility for their own life, to build it up integrating in it failures,
difficulties sacrifices, sufferings, to celebrate life and the God who gives it to us, and to live it with love and
dedication.
To carry out this task it is necessary to remember the vocation and the mission of the family. Its educational
responsibility arises from its very nature and from its specific mission, the fact, that is to say, of its being a
community of life and of love and of being destined ?to guard, reveal and communicate love.?[9] The family
proclaims the gospel of life especially by educating the children to a deep respect for life and to being grateful for
God?s gift.
It is a question of the careful work of the formation of a moral conscience. In its words and in its witness, in its
relationships and its everyday decisions, the family can teach, educate and help live the great values of freedom,
respect for others, acceptance, dialogue, a sense of justice, of solidarity, of the dedication of oneself. In this way,
with confidence and courage, parents will educate their children to the essential values of human life.
6. Don Bosco loves and promotes life for the young especially the poorest
For us, members of the Salesian Family, love for and a commitment to life find in Don Bosco a model and a
teacher.
From being a boy Don Bosco was full of life; he learned from his mother, Mamma Margaret, to discover the
beauty of nature and of life; he knew how to enjoy the splendour of the countryside, the hills and flower-filled
meadows around the Becchi and gaze in wonder at the stars. He made a pet of a little bird and cared for it
lovingly. In all these things his mother taught him to discover the work of God the creator who cares for his
children, his wisdom and infinite power and above all his love. In this way John was opened up to a positive and
providential view of life, he knew how to enjoy the simple things of country life and without discouragement to
face the difficulties that came his way in his own home. In this spirit he tried to communicate a sense of joy to his
companions, entertaining them on feastdays with a great variety of games; but it was always with an educational
motive: to make them better and help them carry out the duties of a good Christian. While still a young student at
Chieri, with his friends he founded the ?Cheerful Society,? the first rule of which was precisely that of always
being cheerful and trying never to offend God.
As a priest going round the streets of Turin and visiting the prisons, Don Bosco understood that young people are
looking for happiness, that they want to enjoy life, to feel accepted and appreciated; and if sometimes they live out
their aspirations following the wrong path which can even lead them to prison, it is not because they are bad but
because they have not found people who believe in them and help them to develop all their energies and gifts in
the right way. For this reason Don Bosco dedicates his life to them, and with them creates a positive environment
that favours a life in which they can experience the joy of living, with ample opportunities for playing and
enjoying themselves, for training themselves and for finding work, for feeling loved, accepted and appreciated in
a family atmosphere. For Don Bosco games, music, the stage, outings and walks are important means of education
and the way to conquer hearts, and so to help these youngsters to develop their best qualities, to feel that they are
capable of doing good and making themselves useful to others and to society. In this way Don Bosco leads them
to know and to live in friendship with Jesus Christ.
We can say that with his boys in Valdocco Don Bosco lives a real pedagogy of life, of joy and of celebration;
indeed, he invites them to commit themselves to foster among their companions this atmosphere. He writes in his
biography of Francis Besucco: If you want to be good practise three things only and all will be well. (?) They are
Cheerfulness, Study, Piety. This is the grand programme. Following it you will be able to live happily and do a lot
of good for your soul.. Joy is an essential characteristic of the family atmosphere and the sign of loving kindness,
the natural consequence of an approach based on reason, and on religion which is interior and spontaneous and
which ultimately arises from peace with God, from a life of grace.[10] For this reason, in Don Bosco?s mind joy
is not only a means to make the serious matter of education acceptable but a way of life which takes into account
the way boys are and their desire for life. Don Bosco understood this and wanted to make it fully real. He
appreciated that deep down a youngster needs to experience the joy of living, freedom, games and friendship. But