THAT REMARKABLE MAN FROM
SHANGRI-LA
The life story (ongoing) of Fr. Dominic Curto
SDB
ROME: 29th August -- Fr. Dominic,
indomitable missionary and racconteur, already celebrating 25 years in the
Philippines with 9 years in Bhutan and 30 years in India as a
warm-up! How could one encapsulate such a lifetime in a few
words? The stories just tumble out of him after 'pranzo at the Pisana',
and austraLasia could not resist seizing upon the
remarkable interlude in Bhutan as a reporter's dream. I mean, to
dream of Shangri-La is one thing; to meet one of those who takes his place in
that royal kingdom's history is quite another. Let Fr. Dominic tell his
own story....
"The
Technical
School
was opened on request of the then Paro Penlop (1964), so as to train young lads
in trades. The first Salesians
in-charge were the late Fr. Philip Giraudo and Fr. Giaime. A few years later, they were joined by
Fr. Dominic Curto and Bro. Gabriel Garniga. The King and Queen (now Queen
Mother - Ashi Kesang
Wanchuck) used to visit the School very often and showed their
appreciation to the Fathers for their valuable educational system. The Fathers were told that Bhutanese lads
understand only the stick . We never used it! “Fathers,” the
Queen remarked in one of her
frequent visits, (almost monthly). “I see that you have formed a family
with your boys” – “Yes, the students are good boys”, Fr. Philip
answered. The Queen added: “It
is your dedication and sacrifices that work.”
On
another occasion, the Father was called
to see the Queen at the Namseling
Palace.
She had two couples as guests: one from the
U.S.
and the other from Switzerland. She introduced the Father to the guests:
“Here is Fr. N.N. who works very much for our poor Bhutanese
youngsters. We feel very grateful
to the Fathers. "
During the 7-day coronation feast of her son as king, the Queen
mother and the new king often sat
for hours chatting with the Fathers
while watching the Bhutanese dances. At
the last dinner, the Father took his plate and lined up for a self serving
with at least 150 foreign guests
viz. Ambassadors, High Officials of different Governments: viz.
U.S.,
Swiss, U.K, Chinese, Australians etc.
The Queen approached him and said,
“Father, you are my real brother who works much for my poor
Bhutanese”. Next she took the
plate from the Father and went to fill it
with the goodies of the dinner. “Father, you work a lot and have to eat”, she
muttered.
She
had the Father sit at her very table to eat. During the Queen’s travelling to
Thimphu
– Phutsholing, a 6-hour
drive, every body had to stop along
by the side of the road, get out of the car and bow at the King and Queen as
they passed by. But whenever she
spotted a Father, she had the long car line wait. She would move out of her car, approach the Father and ask him
whether he was okay. She would then
call her attendant and order him to bring gifts (fruits or anything)
to the Father: “Father you need them.”, she would
say.
In
1983, she invited Frs. Philip and Dominic as royal guests to
Thimphu. She had them put up at the Bhutan Hotel at her own expense.
Often she enquired whether the Fathers were alright and warned the manager to
comply with any request of theirs.
March
2000,
Fr. Dominic was invited by the Don Bosco past pupils to visit
Bhutan. Beside the past pupils, the whole family of Fr. Kinley S.J. treated the
priest as their real Father. Fr.
Kinley
was a Buddhist lad, but
endowed by God with special
spiritual gifts. He was baptized in
1972. He wanted to die a martyr, and proclaimed before the King and his council
that he was a Christian. After
some trials and discussions, the King allowed him to
remain a Catholic but he bade him not to teach the Christian religion, because a
Bhutanese, he said, has to be a Buddhist. The lad then 17, told the king
“Poen, I shall not preach in public, but in private, I’ll say what I feel.” After his
baptism, Kinley held a very profitable business in the country. He was the most outstanding and
enlightened person in the Kingdom.
After 10 years he left a very profitable career to become a Jesuit priest
of the Darjeeling
Province.
Before entering the Jesuit noviciate, he came to
Santa
Cruz [Philippines, and the scene of Fr. Dominic's 25 years work in that
province] ,
to get acquainted with a Christian environment. From Kurseong he now visits
Bhutan
nearly every month and says Sunday Masses for the Christians who work
there.
Once, Fr. Kinley’s mother told the Father: “Lobe” (teacher)
whenever you enter my house, I feel the sun enters it.” This year, she
said again: “Lobe” (teacher), kadingche La”
(thank you) for having made my son
a Christian Lama.”
It was time to take a break. I
needed it more than Fr. Dominic. Tomorrow he returns to the
Philippines. Are the Salesians presently in Bhutan? Nepal,
yes. Bhutan no, but Fr. Dominic could not resist a comment there
either. Let him conclude...
"Some of our past pupils have suggested me to start an association of
the past pupils of Don Bosco. Sangey Tenzing, past pupil and now director of the
whole of the
Bhutan
telecommunication system, suggested he would print the news on the weekly paper,
“Kuensell”, several times, so as to
notify all the members to attend the meeting. What a wonderful
idea! Don Bosco will again enter
Bhutan and guide
the youth to be just what he wanted, i.e. 'honorable and useful
citizens' of
Bhutan and of
heaven, God willing. Don Bosco loves the Bhutanese youth, who
still follow their untainted, and simple Buddhist way of life."
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