exuberant and those who are reserved, those who are strong and those who are fragile,
those with open wounds and those with hidden scars. God meets us exactly where we are,
not where we would like to be or where we think we should be. He meets the alcoholic in his
bar, the prisoner in his cell, the exhausted mother in her kitchen, the student in his solitude,
the elderly in their silence.
But this closeness is not static; it is not resignation. God meets us where we are to lead us
where we deserve to be. We do not deserve it for our efforts or our virtues, but we deserve
it as beloved children. We deserve the fullness of life, deep joy, recovered dignity, healed
relationships. God’s closeness is dynamic. It is an outstretched hand that invites us to rise; it
is a voice that whispers “come further”; it is a presence that walks beside us towards
brighter horizons.
3. Choosing acceptance: Truth knocks at the door of freedom
And here is the third movement, perhaps the most delicate: acceptance. In the grotto, the
game of our life is played out. It is not rhetorical exaggeration, but the deepest truth of our
existence. That grotto is the image of every inner grotto of ours, of those hidden spaces of
the heart where we decide who we want to be.
Truth – which is not an abstract idea but a Person, that Child in the manger – knocks at the
door of our freedom. It is a discreet, gentle knock, never violent. God could break down the
door, could impose Himself with the power of His omnipotence. But He chooses to beg. The
Divine becomes a beggar of humanity. What an astonishing paradox! He who created
everything asks us, His creatures, to make room for Him.
Truth calls, waiting for Freedom to respond. There is no coercion, no manipulation. There is
only an invitation, renewed every day, every moment; “Will you welcome me?” It is human
freedom, fragile and powerful together, that must decide. We can close the door; we can
pretend not to hear; we can postpone until tomorrow. Or we can open.
Choosing acceptance means recognising our indigence. Just as that grotto was an empty
space ready to be filled, so too must we empty ourselves of our presumptions, our self-
sufficiencies, our idols. Acceptance requires inner space. We cannot welcome God if we are
already full of ourselves.
But when we choose to open that door, when we say our yes, the miracle happens. The poor
grotto becomes a cathedral of light. Our ordinary life becomes a place of Presence. Our
fragilities become spaces where grace can operate. Acceptance transforms; we are no
longer the same after having welcomed that Life that comes to visit us.
Christmas, therefore, is this threefold movement that involves us entirely. It is recognising
the scandalous gratuitousness of a God who makes himself small; interpreting the closeness
of Him who enters our concrete history. It is choosing acceptance, opening the door of the